Life is a Journey // Not a Destination

January 04 & 05

In the darkness something was happening at last.  A voice had begun to sing.”

-C. S. Lewis, The Magician’s Nephew


Life is a Journey // Not a Destination
Putting Illuman’s Five Touchstones
to Work in Our Lives

-An Overnight Retreat-
Lawrence Lodge at De Sales Center
Brooklyn, Michigan

In our lives we often awaken to the question “What does all this mean?” and “Have I really mattered?”  This retreat will look at five words that stand in the place of such a lifelong search: Gather, Connect, Center, Release and Serve.  The larger international men’s group called Illuman, to which IN/MI MALES belongs as a chapter, sees these five words as touchstones for authentic male spirituality.

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What Will I Learn?

This retreat will give us hints as to what this enduring journey might look like through reflection, small and large group sharing, ritual and time together in mutual support.  It may give affirmation to where you are right now and challenge you to move on.  It may call you to more profound ways of seeing life and relationship and challenge male stereotypes that trap us.  It is an opportunity to gather and connect so that we do matter and life is better for our having lived it.

Preparation Details

Check in is from 5:00 to 6:50 pm on Friday. Allow yourself plenty of travel time and arrive early so that you don’t feel rushed. Drumming will begin at 6:50 in the meeting space of Lawrence Lodge. The retreat will begin promptly at 7:00 pm. Please bring a drum or percussion instrument if possible. Extra drums are often available.

There will be a time for socializing Friday night. Bring a nonalcoholic beverage and snack to share. (Alcohol is not allowed at this site.) Dinner will not be served on Friday evening and so eat on the way. Breakfast and lunch are provided on Saturday. The retreat ends at 4:00 pm on Saturday.

Towels and bedding are not provided, so please bring your own. Pillows are provided.

If you have questions, contact Mike Whitman at 989-362-6223 (land line) or 989-701-6719 cell or Tom Pawlak at 989-525-6763 cell, for directions if lost. The drive way getting to the lodge can be tricky. Signs will be posted.

What to Bring:

Clothing that meets the weather – you will be out doors

Gloves, outdoor boots and hat strongly suggested

Journal & pen

Towels & Bedding

Snacks & nonalcoholic beverage

Slippers or shoes for in doors

Drum or percussion instrument

Clock to keep us on schedule

 


The retreat leader:

Mike Whitman has led retreats and workshops for both young and old for 40+ years. He will lead us and be accompanied by five Elders from our Council of Elders each presenting and creating rituals on the Five Touchstones of Illuman: Gather, Connect, Center, Release and Serve.

WWe invite you to join us on this journey of illumination 
as we seek to become Learners and Elders.